I Have Your Back- FAQ

Posted on  by Pamala J Vincent

“I Have Your Back” – Women’s Keynote

What is the core message of this keynote?

“I Have Your Back” helps women understand God’s design for healthy, supportive friendships—friendships that strengthen faith, family, calling, and personal well-being rather than compete with them.

Is this message biblically grounded?

Yes. The keynote is rooted in Scripture (Ecclesiastes, Proverbs, Galatians, the Gospels) and illustrated through biblical women such as Ruth and Naomi, Mary and Elizabeth, Deborah, and Priscilla.

Is this message denominational?

No. Bold By Design is Christian but not denominational, making it a great fit for churches, parachurch organizations, homeschool groups, and inter-church events.

Who is this message for?

This message works well for:

  • Church women’s events
  • Mom groups
  • Homeschool groups
  • Teens and families
  • Mixed-age gatherings
  • Retreats and brunches

It is intentionally inclusive of different life stages.

Does this message encourage emotional dependency between women?

No. The message clearly teaches that friendship is a support system, not a substitute for Christ, family, or calling. Boundaries, seasons, and wisdom are emphasized throughout.

Does the keynote include interaction?

Yes—gentle, optional engagement such as reflection prompts or table conversation. No one is pressured to share publicly.

How is emotional safety handled?

The message avoids oversharing, triggering stories, or forced vulnerability. Women consistently report feeling encouraged, relieved, and grounded, not overwhelmed.

Is this appropriate for a brunch or daytime event?

Absolutely. The tone is warm, relatable, and encouraging, making it ideal for brunches, luncheons, retreats, and conferences.

Can the message be customized?

Yes. The keynote can be tailored to:

  • Time length (30–60 minutes) and retreats
  • Audience age or season
  • Church or ministry theme
  • Inclusion of prayer or follow-up discussion or washing of feet (retreats only)

What outcomes can we expect?

Women leave with:

  • Biblical clarity about healthy friendships
  • Language for boundaries without guilt
  • Greater peace and confidence
  • Stronger alignment with God’s design for relationships

In the past, I’ve seen this message heal a room full of women who had previously fought within the group.