What is The Real Dirt on Being Happy?
The Real Dirt on Being Happy is a faith-based teaching experience that explores what genuine, lasting happiness looks like from a biblical perspective—beyond circumstances, perfection, or performance. This message gently challenges cultural myths about happiness and helps women discover joy that grows from faith, gratitude, obedience, and everyday faithfulness.
Who is The Real Dirt on Being Happy for?
This message is ideal for:
- Women’s ministry events and church gatherings
- Luncheons, brunches, and retreats
- Homeschool conferences and parent groups
- Women navigating stress, burnout, or life transitions
- Creative and writing organizations
- Multi-generational women’s audiences
What topics does The Real Dirt on Being Happy address?
Common themes include:
- The difference between happiness and joy
- Letting go of unrealistic expectations
- Finding contentment in everyday life
- Gratitude as a spiritual discipline
- Peace that isn’t dependent on circumstances
- Biblical truths about joy, rest, and trust
Teaching is honest, encouraging, and deeply relatable.
Is this message biblical?
Yes. The Real Dirt on Being Happy is grounded in Scripture and biblical wisdom, emphasizing joy as something cultivated through faith, obedience, and perspective rather than achieved through control or comfort.
Is this a “positive thinking” or self-help talk?
No. While encouraging and uplifting, this message is faith-centered rather than self-centered. It avoids shallow positivity and instead focuses on truth, surrender, gratitude, and trust in God’s goodness.
What formats are available?
This message works well as:
- Keynote or featured session
- Luncheon or brunch teaching
- Retreat session
- Workshop or breakout session
- Conference presentation
It can be delivered as inspirational teaching or interactive reflection, depending on the event.
How long are the sessions?
Typical session lengths include:
- 30–45 minutes (luncheons and conferences)
- 60–75 minutes (retreats and workshops)
Session length and depth are customizable.
Is this suitable for homeschool groups and families?
Yes. Homeschool parents and families often connect strongly with themes of contentment, gratitude, and joy in daily life. Content can be adapted to include family rhythms, parenting pressures, and home-centered living.
For examples of these concepts, you can check out Lessons from the Garden Books: The Real Dirt on Being Happy!
What makes The Real Dirt on Being Happy different from other happiness talks?
This message:
- Addresses real-life struggles honestly
- Rejects the pressure to “be happy all the time”
- Honors grief, hardship, and hard seasons
- Offers practical ways to cultivate joy daily
- Encourages faithfulness over emotional perfection
Women leave feeling relieved, grounded, and hopeful.
Is the message denominational?
No. The Real Dirt on Being Happy is Christian but non-denominational, making it suitable for a wide variety of churches, ministries, and Christian organizations.
Can this message be customized for our audience or theme?
Yes. Sessions can be tailored to align with:
- Your event theme or scripture focus
- Motherhood, caregiving, or leadership emphasis
- Parents and Grandparents Equipping Teens and Littles
- Creative or writing audiences
- Women in transition or rebuilding seasons
What tone can attendees expect?
The tone is:
- Warm and compassionate
- Honest and encouraging
- Faith-anchored and practical
- Gentle, hopeful, and relatable
Women feel understood, not lectured.
What outcomes do women typically experience?
Participants often leave with:
- A renewed understanding of biblical joy
- Practical habits for cultivating gratitude
- Freedom from comparison and performance
- Peace about imperfect seasons
- A deeper sense of hope and contentment
How does this message pair with other sessions?
The Real Dirt on Being Happy pairs beautifully with:
- Chaos to Clarity (releasing overwhelm)
- Bold By Design (confidence and calling)
It works especially well as a closing or reflective session for retreats.
How do we book The Real Dirt on Being Happy?
Booking begins with a simple conversation to discuss:
- Event type and audience
- Date, location, and format
- Session length and customization needs
Email Pam at Vincent.PamalaJ@gmail.com, place in the subject heading “Book Speaking” or call Pam at 503.704.0846
Is promotional support available?
Yes. Event planners can receive:
- Speaker bios (short or long)
- Program descriptions
- Newsletter and social media copy
- Event promotion language
Optional Tagline for Planners
Cultivating joy that grows deep roots—no matter the season.